Go for a selection of flattering photographs that show you at your best: for the men, tidy yourself up a little, for the women, just the merest hint of skin wouldn’t go amiss.
Just one photo isn’t enough – prospective daters are going to want to catch a few angles – but also make sure that you look at least similar in each of the pics.
"There's nothing to hide or be ashamed of, and avoiding the topic sets the tone that you're afraid of something." Moving on from the topic is equally as important as addressing it in the first place, Newton adds.
Make it "clear you're willing to discuss it, but that you've also put it behind you. If the topic comes up, you might say, 'I'm divorced.
Divorce is not easy, but the challenges in life are what cause us to grow.