It keeps him vested in the relationship, rather than just going along with the relationship. If you want the upper hand in the dating field, this is how you do that.
Don’t always jump to answer his calls, let him wonder what you are doing.
"At some point you need to let him know you're interested by reaching out.
Men will easily get turned off by a woman who calls or texts too much.
So, let me share with you my Top 10 Dating Rules, in the hopes that I’m saving you and reminding myself of all the crap and confusion involved with dating the opposite sex. No, you shouldn’t have to go half on the bill or pay every other date. It is great material in case you need to catch him in a lie, prepare for future arguments or (necessarily) make quick judgments so you can get the hell out of dodge. There’s two reasons: let’s the man feel like a man and you can observe his character.
You can tell he's into you if he doesn't hit on your friends and always treats you with respect. He may just need one more promotion before he gets the guts to go for you.
"Always waiting for the guy to initiate contact is annoying to most men," says Harold, 35.
Over the course of a relationship, your significant other will learn more about you. Because we share so much about our thoughts and emotions with each other, we tend to do this too much with men in the beginning.4. Think about it in mathematical terms, if you put in 100 percent effort, how much is left for him to give? The less effort you put in, the more he has to come forward. If he isn’t willing to invest the energy to at least come pick you up and have something planned for the evening, just say no. If he has hours to spend on the phone, he can use the effort to see you.8. When you are intimate too soon in the relationship, you are investing too much too soon.