But we may be tempted to make the leap that the "best" sex (and it's helpful to note we're generally basing our notion of "good" sex on the media's portrayal) is reserved for those who remain virgins until marriage.
A performance-based rewards system in any area of our spiritual lives can become a problem, but it is particularly damaging in this case.
As a teen, I was not a stranger to the purity movement.
In fact, a search of "purity" on Christian turns up 709 products.
Maintaining sexual purity as a teen and young adult is a challenge.