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The one thing that will help you combat the somewhat "unfair" ratios is to stand out. Can anyone shed some light as to why I'm not getting any messages from any of the girls on these hookup sites? Do you mean that there are more women on hookup sites looking for casual sex than there are on dating sites? In terms of the photos we should use on hookup sites, do you recommend going with face pics or is it better to deliver the goods right away and post nudes? Some people say it's best to post nudes on these types of sites, others say it's not a good idea.
Being able to stand out in a big crow of men will aid you in your quest. Browse the male profiles and see what everyone is doing. I've been a member on my fair share of dating sites and adult hookup sites and would like to chime in. If women are signing up on a hookup site, aren't they only interested in one thing? They can't all be the same when it comes to the results they deliver. I've met 3 women over the past two and a half months but haven't stayed in touch with any of them.
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What are, in your opinion, the best adult hookup sites online? I must be doing something wrong because no matter which site I join I can't seem to find anyone.